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How to Decide What to Do With the Kids Today

January 29, 2015 Kai Kunkel

Have you ever known (or been) a new mom who frets over what her baby eats? When I was that new mom and my little one ate only strawberry yogurt some days, I got a great piece of advice: Stop trying to balance each meal, balance the week instead. Over the course of a week she should get a wide variety of healthy foods. Sigh of relief. I love this idea so much, I apply it to kids' activities too. 

Provide opportunities for a wide range of activities each week.
Some (nanny) kids are scheduled in tight. My families have always opted for a Simplicity Parenting approach. Lots of unstructured playtime. But I want to be sure that while we play the kids develop a wide range of skills.  

Run through a mental checklist. Have we read? Run outside? Made art? 
When setting out invitations to play for my preschool age kids, I run through a mental checklist of what we've done so far during the week and what's missing. Like this one:

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Tags play, Art, Simplicity Parenting, Large Motor Skills, Small Motor Skills, Social Skills, Emotional Intelligence
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This is As Good As It Gets, Kids

June 25, 2014 Kai Kunkel

The little kids and I had just popped into the shop on the corner for organic doughnuts and I was sipping a latte. We were headed to the park where the big kids' field day was underway. It was the last day of school. A spring in my step, baby on my back, sunshine on my face, songs streaming out, summer starts tomorrow kind of day. "It doesn't get better than this kids! Right now, this is the best." 

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Tags Simplicity Parenting, Kindness, Self
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It's Okay to Just Play

May 20, 2014 Kai Kunkel

Most days all the kids and I do is play. Puzzles, dress-up, blocks, tea parties, ring around the rosie, hide and seek. Sometimes I feel guilty about that, like I should be providing more structured activities or taking them to the zoo more often. But the research shows that play, child-driven play, is what kids need. 

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Tags Play, Brain Development, Social Skills, Large Motor Skills, Small Motor Skills, Simplicity Parenting
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Walking Home Takes Forever

April 11, 2014 Kai Kunkel

Most sunny days I like to pick up the bigger kids from school on foot. It's nice for them to decompress in the fresh air before starting homework. The only challenge is, walking home takes forever.

They want to touch flowers, hunt for perfect sticks, squabble about who gets to ride in the stroller, pet their favorite neighborhood cat and on and on. 

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Tags Self, Simplicity Parenting
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Less Is More: Toys

March 17, 2014 Kai Kunkel

We already know this. We makes jokes about babies liking the box more than the present. We read magazine articles about decluttering. I for one can't remember the last time the beautiful dollhouse in our playroom was played with. So why are we drawn by the allure of fancy toys again and again?

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Tags Simplicity Parenting
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