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It's Okay to Ignore the Kids (A Little)

October 28, 2014 Kai Kunkel

My grandma often took care of my brother and me when I was little. Most days she'd set us up with crayons or wooden blocks before going to iron or peel veggies. 

Grandma didn't hover over us but she was available when we needed her. 
These days there's pressure to engage children every moment. The other day I got a call while my (nanny) kids were climbing and sliding at the playground. I felt embarrassed to take it, worried that I might be judged for paying more attention to my phone than them.

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Tags Brain Development, Play, Creativity, Gift of Boredom
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Secure Your Own Oxygen Mask Before Helping Others (Prize Inside)

October 13, 2014 Kai Kunkel

We nannies don't have to teach kids how to read, write or multiply fractions. Instead, we teach them to: 

Make friends 
Use their manners
Take the right risks
Become independent
Fix problems with words
Bounce back from failures
Stay calm when they're mad
Be creative, courageous and kind 
Persevere in the face of a challenge
Follow directions but think for themselves, and 
Everything else they need to know to become awesome adults

No problem, we got this. On one condition.

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Tags Brain Development, Power Struggle, Emotional Intelligence, Self, Calm, Professionalism, Behavior Management, Kindness, Social Skills
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It's Okay to Just Play

May 20, 2014 Kai Kunkel

Most days all the kids and I do is play. Puzzles, dress-up, blocks, tea parties, ring around the rosie, hide and seek. Sometimes I feel guilty about that, like I should be providing more structured activities or taking them to the zoo more often. But the research shows that play, child-driven play, is what kids need. 

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Tags Play, Brain Development, Social Skills, Large Motor Skills, Small Motor Skills, Simplicity Parenting
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But what do I DO with the baby?

February 28, 2014 Kai Kunkel

It's obvious she needs food, clean diapers and sleep. But what am I supposed to do with her the rest of the time? You know, to help her growing brain? She's too little to like the zoo right? 

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Tags Baby, Brain Development
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